Category: Grave Markers

  • Helen Greenough: Budded on Earth to Bloom in Heaven

    A few years ago while researching my great grandmother Arabella Mitchell, I discovered that she and her first husband Isaac Gaetz Greenough had a daughter while they were living in Chelsea, Massachusetts.

    According to the birth registrations for the City of Chelsea, this baby girl was born on September 29th, 1893. No first name was given to the child at the time of the birth registration. However, I eventually learned that her name was Helen. According to the book Eastern Shore Families: Genealogical Notes on Petpeswick by Kim Stevens, her middle name was Gertrude, but I can’t find any documentation confirming this.

    Birth Registration of Helen Greenough. Source: “Massachusetts Births, 1841-1915,” database, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/search/collection/1536925: accessed 3 October 2022), imaged birth registration 646, reference ID #341, Greenough, 29 Sep 1893, Chelsea, Suffolk, Massachusetts; citing Secretary of the Commonwealth. Massachusetts Archives, Boston.)

    There is a photograph of an unidentified baby in my great grandmother’s photo album. The photo was taken in Boston (across the Mystic River from Chelsea). It makes me wonder. Is this a picture of Helen Greenough?

    Is this a picture of Helen Greenough?

    I did know that Helen Greenough died as a child. That was pretty much all I knew, though. There is a passing reference to her in my great grandmother’s obituary but nothing in way of any details. Unfortunately, there is a thirty year gap in death registrations for the Province of Nova Scotia from 1878 to 1907. So, you often need to rely on obituaries or grave markers for information during this period. No obituary exists as far I can tell, but my late mother told me that she was “pretty sure” that she was buried at the Riverside Cemetery in Musquodoboit Harbour beside her father.

    Grave marker of Helen Greenough at Riverside Cemetery, Musquodoboit Harbour, Nova Scotia. Photo courtesy of Eastern Shore Archives.

    Recently, the good folks at Eastern Shore Archives sent me a photograph of Helen’s grave marker at the Riverside Cemetery. I always find it heartbreaking seeing the grave marker of a child. My mind travels back in time imagining what the circumstances were surrounding their untimely death. According to her grave marker, Helen Greenough died on May 16, 1900. The inscription reads, “Helen Greenough. Died May 16, 1900. Aged 6 years 8 months. Budded on Earth to Bloom in Heaven.”

    Additonal Links:
    Find A Grave Memorial for Helen Greenough
    Wikitree Profile for Helen Greenough

  • Photo Post #17 | Grave Marker of Doris Elaine (Mills) Finch

    Photo Post #17 | Grave Marker of Doris Elaine (Mills) Finch

    Grave marker of Doris Elaine (Mills) Finch, White Chapel Memorial Gardens (Hamilton). Photo by Amanda Finch.

    It took a little longer than expected, but the good folks at White Chapel Memorial Gardens in Hamilton finally located and installed my Mom’s grave marker. OK technically it’s my Dad’s too, but he wants to wait a bit before rejoining Mom.

    My parents purchased their marker and burial plot years ago. A good idea. I think they chose well. The round piece in the top centre pulls up and becomes a vase for flowers.

    Doris Elaine (Mills) Finch was born August 26, 1949 in Oyster Pond Jeddore, Nova Scotia. She died July 20, 2023 in Oakville, Ontario.